Reply To: after the first date…
For some reason this doesn’t look like my account. Not that similar things haven’t happened to me in the past. Maybe the posts of a deleted account got re-assigned to me.
In general, it can always go either way. You can lose her by being too eager or by waiting too long. Typically though, you are better off waiting a little longer, particularly if she seemed lukewarm. Waiting a week or so to contact her is fine. If she’s into you, you probably wont’ lose her over that and if she’s not into you, it could make you seem like you have options, which raises your attractiveness.