Reply To: Outside Interests
Good job on getting to step five, man!
Should you learn a new skill?
The question you need to ask yourself is:
Has going out to practice meeting women become a habit for me?
If you think you can continue to go out regularly without having to put a lot of mental energy into getting yourself to go out, then I say go for it. Try something new.
But, for your new skill, I challenge you to do something more social than you normally do. Martial arts and learning a new language can be social but… it’s not THAT social. If it sounds like a challenge to you, then by all means, go ahead.
But if you can get to Step 5 in my program, I’m guessing it’s not that much of a challenge, at least not socially.
Can you think of any skills that might be more socially challenging for you to learn?