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I see a lot of this ‘always be closing’ mentality in the seduction community. It gets to extremes where it is borderline rapey. I frequently see wannabe PUA’s in London chatting up women and creeping them out. The women are trying to get away from them and guys are following them and touching them. It’s disturbing.
Boldness and dominance has its place in this game. But in my opinion, seduction is also about making the girl come to you. I had a first date last week and the girl linked my arm of her own accord. If you have to steamroll your way through the whole process because of her resistance, you’re perhaps not doing it right.