Reply To: What women really want – The science not the bullshit

[MrAntiquity]

Ok–but a big part of this isn’t the challenging/not challenging but the fact that since you feel that it works for you, you are able to fully buy into your approach. That’s why it “works”–because you’re confident in the presentation, invested in it, and most iportantly, believe it. You can also be confident in presenting skepticism. Plus since Lee’s been doing that method for a long time, it sounds like he really IS skeptical (i.e. not phony at all).

As for me, I don’t see why I can’t be direct and challenging at the same time. As I’ve said before, I see the challenge business, which includes calling people out on bullshit, all as part of a pretty standard dating ritual…a lot of people don’t do it, but that’s usually because they’re scared to or it’s socialized out of them, or whatever..