Reply To: love triangle forming, opinions?
Agree with SomeguyUK. You’re not losing this girl because of the other guy. You’re losing her because she doesn’t think you’re The Man. No romantic gesture is going to change that. With the other guy out of the picture, you’re still not quite in the picture yourself. You can still win with the worst strategy and still lose with the best strategy, but my advice is always the same: you have only one card to play, giving value or taking away value. Your value is the only thing you have. When she’s not giving you enough, you should start pulling it away. (When she’s giving you too much, you should start giving back. No one writes to this forum when that happens, but having been in those situations myself, I can tell you that it’s just as easy to lose them when they’re giving you too much as when they’re not giving you enough.) That’s the whole game.