Reply To: Is it just warming up?
From your previous posts it sounds like you approach a LOT and are able to do it, which is great (I can’t!) but you rarely if ever push things forward. Becoming comfortable means follow-through, like in any sport. Just swing as far as the ball just to hit it, and maybe you’ll make safe contact, but you’ll never put it away. You need to swing THROUGH–as the follow through really shapes theh ultimate trajectory. This is true in probably any sport, and it’s true with girls, too 🙂 Follow through with women just means taking things that many steps further.
Will you ever have NO fear, as Ryan O often talks about on here? I can’t tell you that–depends on the person.