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February 9, 2015 at 8:18 pm #72750
there’s a middle ground–I know tons of people who are really well liked and do great with women. Even their ex-girlfriends continue to like them. I don’t think that in order to erase the dreaded pushover nice-guy-ness you have to drive away a bunch of people–you just have to be assertive and have fun being yourself. Aggressive drives people away–assertive draws people in, in my experience. Maybe a few won’t like it, but that’s their problem…
I do get what you mean by “polarizing”. But I think there’s positive and negative ways to polarize.