Reply To: love triangle forming, opinions?
Careful with heavy subjects like the “what’s going on with us” in a work environment. You guys have/had a fling, doesn’t sound like she’s all that invested in it, and now she might be going for the same sort of thing w/a friend of yours. With respect to her, I’d absolutely back away–don’t be cold or ignore the shit out of her, but just back away, end the flirtation, just be nice to her as a normal co-worker and NO more. If she pursues you after that, well fine, take it from there–but maybe best if she doesn’t. She might be a flaky person who enjoys flings.
There’s another situation with your friend–it’s kind of a dick thing to do, and you may end up talking it out with him at some point–but that’s up to you. Good luck–these close-quarter situations are a pain.