Reply To: After second date.
I agree with you (and the others on this forum) about exposure therapy. Trust me–I don’t just sit here and type on this blog! I do try to chat up girls as often as I can–but I find that I’m only able to do it rarely–whereas 5-6 years ago I was doing it pretty regularly. Who knows why social anxiety can kick in for no reason around 40–it’s a pain. I think I can beat it but it will take time.