Reply To: What do women actually find attractive during conversation?

[The_Hurricane]

Correct. The best conversations walk the fine line between too much tension and just the right amount of tension. A comfortable conversation is what girls expect from orbiters who are stuck in their friend zone. High value men know how to drag women into the hot zone. Initially, women resist. It’s part of their 20/20 hindsight narrative that they were so attracted to you that you got them to do something they normally wouldn’t do. There’s a great explanation of the role of taboo in The Psychology of the Erotic. Why do we have taboos? One of the reasons is that high value women use the taboo to determine which men are psychologically strong enough to lead them to places where weak men would never dare to go. It’s a great way to filter for only the strongest and most dominant men.

–Lee