Reply To: What do women actually find attractive during conversation?

[MrAntiquity]

Two that I’ve found really–almost intimidatingly powerful (when I’m able to break them out which is seldom)

1. Acting like you know everything there is to know about sex/dating/relationships, and she has a lot to learn. (a lot of bullshitting is involved here but it’s fun)

2. A real, powerful, and completely unexpected compliment that no one would say. Only deliver something like this when you feel it, and when you get the feeling things are reciprocated–doesn’t really work to win someone over who’s not that interested.

as for flirting, I’d say it’s a conduit to attraction, not really that it creates it. But I think that potential attraction between men and women is much, much more common than people admit–you just need to open the right gates. Flirting can do that.