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As we talked about at the very beginning, you should offer no explanations. Keep it vague. “Work. Social life. Just busy as hell.” If she presses you, just tell her “Look, why should you want to know the details. This is good. Until we’re in the right place together, both of us should have some privacy.” If she asks whether you’re sleeping with anyone else, say “Until we’re in a real, committed relationship, you should always assume I am. Whether I am or not is not the point. The point is that you should assume it. I’ll assume the same about you.” These are just examples of how you answer these questions. Don’t give away the mystery.