Reply To: rekindle…. I'm terrible at this sort of t hing

[MrAntiquity]

Thanks, @SG–

There will definitely be some wine involved as I like it anyway, and it’s her career 🙂 Although to be honest I do need to focus on how to do this without chemical assistance—so that the natural “transitions” start to feel right to me, rather than forced. Same with the bedroom thing–what I really want is to move things along smoothly without looking for too many crutches–people HAVE said to me before that I don’t flirt–once from a girl who I did end up sleeping with but I kind of pitched the idea in a mechanical way: “So…let’s go in here then”. Or something like that. So I really want to work on flow. I think if I work on physical escalation a bit outside–at dinner, whenever, that might help things along. We’ll see…