Reply To: The Right State

[SomeguyUK]

I don’t know if there’s any way to do what you’re asking. You’re basically asking ‘how can I be happy almost all of the time?’

I don’t think that’s possible. The human condition is such no matter what we have in our lives, we always want something better.

Life is so unpredictable that you are always going to have ups and downs throughout your day, and you’ll always have something new to worry about.

I do think it’s good to try and avoid carrying negativity around with you. Like today I joined in some facebook debate, and I ended up feeling weird about it. I enjoy getting in debates but I realised maybe it’s not worth it if it means I am carrying some kind of negativity around with me all day. I think you could extrapolate that idea to different parts of your life.

As far as being in a good state for approaching women is concerned, I think that’s just about being as outgoing and social throughout your day as you can.