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I see social dynamics as having two distinct parts. The first part is social comfort and the second part is game. Social comfort is the ability to comfortably approach women and engage them in conversation. If you’ve never been in a relationship before, you’re probably not good at this, and if you face additional impediments, it will take you longer to master this part. If you’re particularly good looking (or otherwise have some form of status or value), you can meet and date women just by being socially comfortable and approaching enough women. That’s what we see in most of the online videos of attractive pickup coaches approaching women, engaging them in (mostly) ordinary conversation, and successfully getting their numbers. However, for the rest of us, social comfort is not enough, and we need game. Game is that process of flirting, taking chances, and challenging women. Eric’s book is deliberately a little short on game because his focus is social comfort. If that’s already the stage that you’re in – the stage where you can comfortably approach women and engage them in long, comfortable conversations – and you’re looking to supercharge your interactions with game, then maybe Eric’s book is not perfect for you. On the other hand, if you’re just starting out with approaching, there is no better step-by-step guid than Eric’s book. It is the only systematic approach to getting socially comfortable and approaching women.