Reply To: This is why guys like us are so damn screwed up…
Well, technically the author is right. It can be intimidating for women, they don’t know that we’re nice guys, and they don’t know what our intentions are.
But I know that my intentions ARE good. And I cannot think of a safer place to approach a women than in a busy public place in broad daylight. It’s somehow more acceptable to approach women in bars and clubs, and yet that is where people are inebriated and where a lot of date rapes happen.
Should guys learn not to be intimidating to women? Absolutely. Should we refrain from approaching them at night when we are the only two people on a train? Probably, yes. But we should we abandon our pursuit of personal happiness because at some point we could inadvertently make a girl uncomfortable for three seconds? Fuck no.