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You’re allowed to notice. You’re always allowed to notice. Every time a woman dresses in a way that is pleasing to men, you’re allowed to notice. The question is, what should you do about it. If you’re of the belief that your openers should make sense and be tailored to the specific situation that you find yourself in, you’re going to try to joke about the fact that they’re topless. I, on the other hand, say the same thing each and every time, so what I would do is this: nothing, or rather nothing different than what I always do. I would point and say “This is a conversation about boys!” This is the same thing I say to every group of women talking to each other. Finding the right thing to say is a trap.