Reply To: "No outcome" vs using "game"
Sounds like you’re asking how it’s possible to both want something to happen and not care about whether it happens. You should care about the outcome of the sum of your efforts to meet someone, but should you care about the outcome of one approach? Why should you care? I literally know nothing about the girl I’m approaching. The only thing I know is that she’s sexy. Would I want to spend even a few hours with her because of that? No. I certainly don’t know if I want to date her. She’s just not that important in my life, at least not at that point. Is meeting SOMEONE I can love important? Of course. Is meeting THIS girl important? Not very.