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I’m not happy with this turn of events. I told you to ignore her if she wrote to you. You were on the right track. You were in charge of when the two of you would reconnect, and now she’s in charge. Did you at least manage to stick to the plan regarding the things that you’d discuss? Nothing heavy? No relationships talk? Nothing about the two of you or who you’re seeing? Or are you falling into the trap of showing that you’re still heavily invested? Does she see you as the fun, light hearted guy with a new romantic life that you don’t care to discuss? Or does she know exactly where you are and what’s going on with you?