Reply To: Library Approach
I hear you, and what you are saying does indeed feel genuine, but:
if the girl is just sitting on her own at a table and I go and sit next to her I feel like either I have to go direct (which I prefer not to do in this context) or if I go indirect I need a reason. It feels off to just sit down and say “you look like you are having deep thoughts about something”. Like she will think- “ok I know why he is here, but he is not admitting it”.
Am I over-thinking things? Is it okay to just go “deep thoughts” or something similar on a girl in this situation (mind you, this is my uni library so I cannot go to excesses I usually can afford).