Reply To: god of pick up
Thanks for the insightful post, it certainly clarifies a lot of the things I’ve seen you talk about in here. Would love to try some of these tactics out.
“guy: “Fair enough. So you said marketing, right? I have a friend who’s in marketing. Internet stuff. Very bright guy but he hasn’t cracked a novel since high school. Is that you?”
You’ve mentioned before that all your stories are true. Would you have used a different story/question if she hadn’t said marketing? I’m guessing you don’t have a statement like that for EVERY occupation. Let’s say she’s a hairdresser, how would you introduce that same line of qualification?
Also I have another question. Eric has said before that qualifiers don’t really work until you have some attraction. Would you normally have established some attraction before you say “I get the feeling you do something creative”?