Reply To: It's not about you

[ryano]

Not exactly, out of 10 approaches I get 1-2 numbers. (mainly because of the BF bullshit. But what can I do alot of them have bf)

Now out of 10 numbers I’ll probably get 6-7 dates. But I’ll probably have sex with 1-2 of them.

Let’s say sex 1 out of 4 girls I actually take on a date, and that’s on the first date and usually very quickly, within about 2 hours. The other girls I date within those 10 nums either she doesn’t like me or I don’t like her.

Unless she’s an amazing girl at which point I wouldn’t mind waiting for it for a few more dates..

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Also, you need to understand what I mean by “approach”. Because I don’t really see it as an approach. For example, when I go to the supermarket I’ll usually “approach” a couple girls; but all I do is ask them stupid cooking questions and then ask them if they go out, and if I could invite them out.

Or sometimes I’m at starbucks and the girl waiting next to me, I almost always talk to. What else am I gonna do? I do it for fun mainly. I find it very boring to live life and not mess with people.

But I see what you’re saying, sometimes it’s hard within a given WINDOW of time to find a hot girl.

But that’s why you need to be doing this shit 24/7. Ie ANYTIME you see a hot girl you should approach her in any circumstance. It’s easier said than done. It took me a long time to develop that.

But it’s funny, once you’re there.. you’re kinda like “wow, life is so fucking boring if I DON’T approach all these chicks” so it’s almost like you have to to avoid boredom.