Reply To: Lee's Pet Peeves and Fallacies of Social Dynamics
This has nothing to do with repressing sexuality. If you have plenty of beautiful women in your life, it would be crazy for you to treat each new one as if you have none. Take some movie star – say George Clooney before he got married. It would be crazy for him to chase each hot little seventeen year old aspiring model who asks for his autograph as if he didn’t have an unlimited supply of these. I’m sure that he’d rather spend an evening doing something more interesting. Women know that high value men are selective and it’s an attraction trigger. I’m no George Clooney, but that’s how I feel about girls I meet. Unless there’s something special about them, I’m not going to waste an evening trying to get them into bed. I don’t have that many free evenings left in my life. That sense that I’m not completely sold is what gets women to chase me.