Reply To: Read Me: Why Guys Aren't Getting Consistent Lays on this Forum

[kiriyama_27]

LOL +1 to that again.

I had a bad habit of over-complicating it… had all these sophisticated routines in my head, this and that, and I could barely keep it straight. Limited (read: No) success.

First breakthrough was when I listened to a free audio clip Eric posted on this site here. He barely did anything! It sounded like nothing at all, he just mentioned some sex survey and talked like a normal guy about normal small talk shit. Bam, digits in two minutes or less. Key word – talk like a NORMAL GUY. It took forever for this to actually click for myself, because of a lifetime of conditioning.

You didn’t see his posture, or where he was standing, but like 90% of it is this. That is all I changed in my game, and instantly there was success. Stand straight, eye contact, good voice. Non-verbals and the confident voice. The voice is a real killer, I think. If you sound like a weenie, you are sunk, instantly.

I am fundamentally the same guy before and after, but my presentation of myself has improved and so have my results – initially. My escalation was super shaky because I started fucking around, doubting myself, wondering what we were working towards, all kinds of Too Nice Guy stuff that makes me want to cringe right out of my skin now. If I had just taken this advice and gone for it, I’d have maybe three booty calls right now instead of a clean slate and another 40 sets.

You didn’t have the strongest round of videos.. I’d seen them before, and thought the same thing. Weak number closes. But I know enough guys personally that are just not all that high value but rake in women anyway to know there is, absolutely, truth to what you are saying.