Reply To: Hi. I get cockblocked more than anyone on the planet. Please help.

[SomeguyUK]

There’s two possibilities here. It could be that the girl had a moment of insecurity, realised she didn’t know you that well, and asked the colleague to turn up ‘by suprise’. Second possibility is just that it’s bad luck. Let’s be honest, bad luck can happen at any moment in this game.

If you’re getting cockblocked all the time, maybe you need to work your game in different scenarios where it’s not possible? Are you a night game guy? Maybe if you are, day game would work for you more.

With regards to your first problem, maybe you are just not being sexual enough on your dates. I am still a beginner with cold approaches in the day but I’m great on dates, and although I agree that you don’t need to be ‘always escalating’, I think that being sexual is very important.