Reply To: what are you struggling with?
As Eric says in the book, you gotta focus on the positive things you did. At least you met her and you got talking with her. You’re a significant step closer than a LOT of guys who want to meet that cute girl.
I stopped a girl on the street today with a direct approach. Got a big smile out of her and she seemed willing to talk. Then I got all awkward and I came off a total weirdo. Oh well at least I had the balls to approach without hesitation, I know I couldn’t have done that a few months ago.
As long as you’re pushing yourself, that’s all that matters.