Reply To: direct/indirect opener question
btw, you should be able to use either DIRECT or INDIRECT anywhere you are.
***If you cannot do this than your skills are not where they should be.
I’ve opened girls direct in a starbucks line, the other day I got a girls number just like that. We were in line and I tapped her on the shoulder gently she turned around (this was at 9:30am mind you) and I said.. “hi, you’re beautiful..”
similarly, in starbucks lines of opened girls indirect “excuse me? what do you think I should get a coffee or tea” or “do you know what has the most caffeine in it?” or whatever…
you can literally say anything, and if you can’t say anything and you DON’T feel comfortable saying anything then your people skills are just not there yet so you must practice practice practice..