Reply To: direct/indirect opener question
And btw, you said you waited “25 minutes” that’s insane. Since when is a stranger you don’t know ANYTHING about worth 25 minutes?
Here’s an example, a guy sees a girl he wants to talk to. He kills himself to try and find something to say. He battles internally between direct or indirect. He pictures her being mad at him. He pictures her being nice to him. He gets anxiety. His heart begins to pound. He gets on an emotional roller coaster. For 30 minutes he goes back and forth in his mind.
he FINALLY approaches her after all that internal battle and she simply shrugs and says “sorry, I have a boyfriend” and walks away like you didn’t even exist.
so let me ask you, was this bullshit he did to himself even worth it?
(NO is the answer btw.. open any way you damn well please)