Reply To: Girls are Random
I think what you are saying ryano (correct me if I am wrong) is that guys should just be themselves, right? Say what you want and do what you want.
I agree with not doing things in order to gain approval from women.
But dismissing the knowledge the pick up community offers is akin to dismissing martial arts, because you should just do what you want- no two fights (girls) will be the same, right. You lose some, you win some.
But if you do not second guess yourself how can you improve? You can’t! You are stuck in the same place. If that place works for you why the heck not. But that does not alter the fact that game works and you can become better with women by studying it.
And I do not think game is about shooting fireworks out of various cavities in your body. Rather, it’s the small things that make all the difference. For example, voice tone, eye contact, better stories, negs… I consider all of this “game”. So, in fact the more I do this the easier it gets and the more I grow, not the contrary.
What do you consider “game”?