Reply To: Open question to women about compliments

[ryano]

This is why it’s never a good idea to ask women about ways to approach them. You’ll always find conflicting information because all girls are different. My advice: choose a way to start talking to women and go with it through hell and back. And trust me, sometimes you will get hell and that’s fine. The idea is that SOME girls will LOVE it and will hand you their numbers. You need to learn to embrace rejection. A good sales book that talks about this is called: “Go for NO!”.

As men, we do all the heavy lifting. The grunt work. Compliments are a socially acceptable way to begin talking to people. However, some girls will NOT like it, but it’s not your problem. You need to simply sift through the weeds to get to the flowers. That’s a main philosophy of the game. Basically, screening/polarizing people to the point where some hate you yet some love you. And giving girls compliments is an example of polarization. Some brats will stick their snouts up yet other girls will be completely flattered and throw their numbers at you. It’s a numbers game though. Embrace rejection or you will get nowhere in cold approaching.