Approach Forum » Approach Anxiety

1. Digger
   Member

   Last Saturday, I went out with my female best-friend.
   I talk a lot about Pick Up with her and she has given me some good advice in the last weeks. We are very open about this topic.

   Anyway, on Saturday we went to a club and we played Fuck-Mary-Kill. It was good fun. I pointed to a really good looking guy. First thing she said was "wait, I first have to look at him for a longer time. *wink*" Then she said to me: "You know, what would make him even more attractive? If I would dance next to him and he would not notice me at all."

   Later, she came back to me and said: "Now, he has lost some of his attractiveness because I noticed that he isn't looking out for women in general."

   When she later saw him looking after some other women she said, that his attractiveness level would have increased again.

   OMG, why are women so complicated. Guys, what are your experiences with ignoring? And if it is helpful, when is the right time to stop ignoring and approach? Any advice?

   Posted 1 month ago

2. isidro1104
   Member

   I seen ignoring work on girls that are into you. Meaning they like you and are kind of invested in you.

   I think is not the same as a girl being attracted. She might be attracted to you, but if you ignore her Who cares she doesn't know you and she's not really invested in you.

   I think the best thing to do is give her attention (approach) get her hooked with your Manliness, your charm your charisma.

   onces shes hooked you could ignore her. I think thats when Ignoring works.

   PS. I'm not an expert its just my opinion :P

   Posted 1 month ago

3. nonstop
   Member

   It depends on a lot of things, but showing interest and then disinterest usually works towards getting her attracted to you, wondering where that initial interest went.

   A bad example from last week:
   My friend came down on Thursday and him, my roomate and I went to grab some cheap food and catch up. We're all 21-25 yrs old. The 3 of us ended up at a cheap Mexican spot with indoor and outdoor seating. We had parked 30 ft away in the lot so we weren't immediately noticed. We went in and ordered and decided where to sit. The indoor seating was empty, but the outdoor seating had 2 groups: a couple, and a group of 6 upper highschool looking girls talking somewhat loudly.

   I basically lead us to sit right next to them, practically arms length away, our tables being like a T shape, us at the -- and them at the I, but not connecting. I looked at them(all of them) once and then sat with my back facing them, my friends on the other side. We ignored them the whole night, talking about sex, ex girlfriends, crazy shit and we were very animated about it. Their conversations got a little more dirty and significantly louder to the point where it was obvious they were trying to get us to talk to them (we didn't). As we left, we would drive right past them again on the way out... When I drove us by slowly, with the windows down, they were all staring at us and literally standing on the edges of their seats watching us driveby.

   They may have been younger, so take that for what it's worth, but definitely by barely acknowledging them and then ignoring them and talking without censorship or regard was not something they were used to and it was clear that they were into us at the end.

   Posted 1 month ago

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