Approach Forum » Approach Anxiety

1. troyboy
   Member

   Hey. I read last weekend KL´s post and got instantly identified with his situation. Even though I have approached several girls during 2 years since I read my first pick up book, ive never ever been constant and of course the Evil AA has never really left.
   I have been looking for a good method for approaching girls almost blindfolded, without thinking of next steps or consequences, and KL´s simple but fun and quite effective of "Hey I think you are beautiful. Would you go out with me?" is exactly what I needed.

   I read that thread last weekend and Ive been going to this mall for 3 days in a row now.
   The difference is clear, and you of course get used to rejection, where getting used is the same as dont care anymore.

   I´m a 25 year old guy still struggling with the most basic of all steps in picking up, AA.
   But what really matters is being constant and having a real interest in doing it.

   I live in one of the 3 best cities in Mexico (more and hotter girls), so I can´t complain and no excuses. This has to be done.

   I love this page and the forum is so good.
   Congratulations for everyone involved.

   Viva Mexico Cabrones!!!!!!!!

   Posted 1 month ago

2. swgr
   Member

   Let me take a wild guess and say you live somewhere in jalisco? The most beautiful mexican women come out of guadalajara. So beautiful I'm seriously considering moving there for a few months if not permanently. DAYUM! Sooo many!

   Posted 1 month ago

3. KL
   Member

   troyboy, that's awesome man, keep it up. One word of advice though, not sure if you're already doing this: try to space out those approaches, for example approach one girl, then keep walking through the crowd and approach another girl that wasn't in viewing range of the previous approach, and keep going like that.

   Otherwise, girls will see what you're doing and will just label you as "that guy" who's desperate, annoying everyone, chasing skirts, whatever. That totally shoots down the fun, carefree and confident image you would want to express. So just a little logistical issue to keep in mind.

   It's great that you're grabbing the bull by the horns. Definitely get out there and have some fun, you only live once.

   Posted 1 month ago

4. troyboy
   Member

   No. It is Monterrey.
   But yeah. Ive heard Guadalajara has hotter girls and they dont have that much of a bitch shield as here in the north.
   Great place to live.

   KL. Yeah thx for the logistics, i had already thought about that, very important to be discrete.

   and absolutely with you.
   We only get one life. Unless you find a green mushroom...

   Posted 1 month ago

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