Online dating offers a very seductive premise: there are thousands of women attractive enough to date within a 20-mile radius. You have the opportunity to match your desires with theirs to find the perfect person. All it takes is a long enough timeline—and the timeline is near infinite. You can wait as long as you

I recently did a podcast with Robbie Kramer from Inner Confidence. Check it out here: Show Notes: Why approach anxiety prevents you from doing what you want to do How to get past approach anxiety Why you want to tune into your negative thoughts and feelings rather than tune out How to break down “the

Aside from tackling approach anxiety, I coach a lot of guys on how to keep women once they’ve started dating. We’ve all been there. You finally garner the interest of a woman you actually like. She was hard to come by but she can be even harder to hold. If you haven’t read it yet,

Is it possible to meet women in person during quarantine? First off, I am putting aside all politics and health concerns in writing this post. It’s up to you to decide what risks and precautions to take: if you want to wear a mask, if you want to talk to people, if you don’t want

This was posted by someone on Reddit. Every guy out there trying to meet women should take this to heart. Your mind seeks comfort. It will trick you into complacency whenever possible. You can rationalize excuses for not chasing what you want, but ultimately your reality is incongruous with your desires. This dissonance will build

I just started working in a new area of town. After the stress of the new job has subsided, it’s time to start meeting women in my new area. What’s my first move? Go out and start having conversations? Nope. My first move is: reconnaissance. I check out the lay of the land. Where are

“I gotta go,” she says. Rolling her eyes at me. At first when I spoke with her, she was friendly and welcoming. She was smiling and seemed happy. But then I said something that creeped her out. The interaction changed and she walked off. No big deal. You take risks. Some women will be into

A client of mine, after running around for hours in the winter cold trying to meet women, came to a realization. “This is not for normal guys,” he told me. And he’s right. Going out and talking to attractive strangers in public is not for normal guys. It’s not for guys who quit easily. Guys

Typically at some point, maybe a second, third or fourth date, I’ll invite her to come over to my place. She knows what will likely happen there: Sex. And if she’s coming over, that typically means she’s thinking about sleeping with you. The big question is: what do you do when she comes over? What

Jordan Peterson discusses how female choice led to the evolution of greatness in humankind: Peterson says: Chimpanzee females are non-discriminant maters. They will mate with any male. When they go into heat, which human females don’t, then any male is allowed access. The dominant males chase the subordinate males away. So the dominant males are