Now that winter rolled around, I’ve been looking for indoor places to meet women. I was taking the train around the city looking for different locations, and I noticed something: All the cute girls I was meeting were on the train going to these locations rather than at the locations themselves. There’s a reason a

As I get on to the subway platform, I’m tired. It’s 9 pm and I’ve been hanging out with Glenn and a friend in the park. I’m ready to just go home and chill. I see this incredibly cute blond girl. She glances over at me and back at the tracks. Is she into me,

It’s 1 PM on a humid Saturday afternoon. I step onto the subway train. The air conditioning feels like a relief. I see an open seat and sit down in it. Almost immediately I notice her. She’s standing on the other side of the train. I can only see her from the back but she

10 AM. Subway. I spot a hotty across the train. She’s sitting but there are people in the seats next to her. A stop later, a seat next to her clears up. With no hesitation, I squeeze past some baby carriages and sit down next to her. I pull out my phone and start flipping

I spot her from across the subway train. Seems attractive from here. So I walk across the train and stand in her vicinity. It doesn’t feel like an approach to me. A few minutes later, as I’m looking down at my phone, I ask her a question. “Do you know if there’s a zoo in

It’s an ugly ugly day out. Cold and pouring rain. I drank too much coffee and I’m feeling on edge. I get onto the subway platform in Union Square. I just finished my daily round: Starbucks, Barnes and Noble. Whole foods. I didn’t even really get past banter with anyone today. Not many attractive women

This is the worst feeling ever, I think to myself. I was feeling great yesterday, and the day before. But today, I just don’t feel like opening my mouth. I just got back from a few days vacation with my family. I was social with them, but didn’t interact with anyone else. I noticed more

During the AM rush hour in New York City, the subway train is QUIET. You wouldn’t think it would be so quiet. Sometimes trains are packed so tightly, you can’t even get on. You need to wait for the next train. You’d think that with this many people packed so closely together, that some of

I used to have demons in my room at night. Desire. Despair. Desire. So many monsters. – Annie Lennox I’m coming off a fantastic weekend. Just finished teaching a workshop. It was beautiful. The best part about it was really connecting with the guys. Being a big brother to them. Seeing them change and grow.

Submission is a result of the ambivalence between fear and attraction. She is sitting there next to me in the bar. She is a beauty queen, this one. We are locked in conversation. I have been teasing her and connecting with her on many different levels for the last 45 minutes. Things are going “well”