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Mar 7

Some girl on Reddit posted this profile of a guy from OKCupid. Listened to 14 years worth of complaints about bad boyfriends, your bad day and everything else that’s wrong with you. Have helped hundreds, possibly thousands of people just by listening and trying to cheer them up. The first person I ever helped said

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Nov 7

This is a guest post by Chase Amante, founder of dating advice company Girls Chase. There she is: the most beautiful girl in the club. Or bar. Or in your class, or office, or the corner coffee shop, or the computer lab. You know… that place you always go to, and keep thinking to yourself

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Nov 1

“Skate to where the puck’s going to be, not to where it has been.” This is the advice Walter Gretzky gave to his son, hockey great Wayne Gretzky. When you’re a beginner, it’s an accomplishment to simply have a conversation with an attractive woman. But once you’ve had a fair amount of conversations, text exchanges,

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Sep 13

Is there something wrong with me because I experience approach anxiety? This is one of the biggest questions guys ask. The paralysis of approach anxiety can feel like a disease, as if you have a mental illness for experiencing it. I could tell you that most guys experience some type of fear when trying to

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Apr 6

Confidence is a loaded word. How many times have you read in a popular magazine that women are attracted to confidence? The word has been thrown around so much that it’s lost all meaning. That’s why you won’t see the word even once in my upcoming book. Still, understanding the concept can go a long

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Feb 17

You want to be natural. We all do. Your interactions with women shouldn’t feel forced or fake. You want to be yourself. Confidence is being able to express yourself in almost any situation. But as you’re improving with women, the main problem: That ‘self’ gets locked up inside. And getting it out ain’t easy. One

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Nov 7

. See the top of this chart? It’s not a point, it’s an arrow. That’s not an accident. Here’s a secret that “successful” people won’t tell you:

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Oct 28

There are too many things wrong with me. My forehead is ridiculously high, my skin too white. My eyes are too small. They’ve been described as “squinty” by tactless friends. My jawline is anything but strong. I hide it with a beard. All the fashion now. I’m getting older, and still I’m typically not the

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Jul 19

This post is from my good friend Cory Skyy. Steve is different than most guys out there. Steve and I are at a small dance club. Several cute girls are dancing up against him, just having a good time. I’m not surprised. We’ve been dancing for a while. I need some fresh air so I

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Jul 15

I quit going to the gym. Why? Is it because I’m lazy? Nope. I’m driven as hell. Is it because I don’t want to get huge and muscular? Nope. I’d love to have a killer physique. It’s for one reason: Time. Every morning, I get up and I workout for about 20 minutes before breakfast.

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