All the time I see guys get themselves into bad positions with women. They turn into the guy who’s constantly asking a girl out for a date and she’s constantly saying no. They get into relationships where the girl is acting badly but he’s powerless to stop her bad behavior. Part of the problem here

Why does great sex so often fade for couples who claim to love each other as much as ever? Why does good intimacy not guarantee good sex, contrary to popular belief? Can we want what we already have? Why is the forbidden so erotic? What is it about transgression that makes desire so potent? For

One of the biggest mistakes guys make, over and over, is trying to logically convince women to date them. They spend an inordinate amount of time demonstrating that they are an appropriate match for her. For a woman to get involved with you, she must, at some point, take action, even if that means simply

A guy I know caught his girlfriend cheating on him. But instead of leaving her, he stuck around for months playing tug of war over the girl with the other guy. Who would put up with a girl openly cheating on him? Who would put up with a girl treating him like shit? When a

In response to The Core of Relationship Management: You are the Prize, a comenter asks an excellent question: I have been with my partner JUST under a year known her for about 2 months before we started dating. I believe i am weak at times, i hate her being mad at me, she can crack

A few years ago, I started dating a girl. She was a bit of a party girl. But I liked her because she was also an artist. For the first few months, I was struggling to keep her invested. She had the upper hand. I got her to be exclusive with me, but only because

I have a close friend who’s pretty good with women, but only once he’s in a conversation with them. When the woman is already talking with him, he’s clever, he’s funny, he shows a lot of personality and attitude. Women love him. In some ways, he’s even more clever and creative than me. The problem

“I feel terrible,” my client tells me. “I’ve been doing my affirmations, and they’re helping. But I can’t stop thinking about her.” And then he admits to me: he’s been in contact with his nemesis again. He was seeing her briefly. But she told him that she wants to be ‘friends with benefits’ and then

When you start seeing a woman, there can be a tendency to do one of two problematic things: First, based on the fact that she’s into you, you can get too comfortable. She’s expressing interest. Girls are good at that. All the interest she is showing you starts to make you feel smug and think

A few years ago I started seeing a girl. I was into things with her, but she was much more into things with me. She played it cool, still taking initiative with me, still inviting me out for things. We even went on a small vacation together. She implied that she wanted to be exclusive