One of the biggest mistakes guys make, over and over, is trying to logically convince women to date them. They spend an inordinate amount of time demonstrating that they are an appropriate match for her. For a woman to get involved with you, she must, at some point, take action, even if that means simply
This post is from Hurricane Lee. You can approach girls. You can ask for the time. You can ask for directions. You can ask a few related follow-up questions But you can’t transition into a personal conversation. Sounds familiar? You are not alone. Everyone starting out in game has the same problem. Everyone. Why? Because
Lately, this one of the most common problems I notice in my advanced coaching clients. In bars, he’ll interact with women like this. He starts with some banter. “You guys look like trouble. I can see what’s going on here!” The girls laugh. Maybe he jokes a bit more. Then he transitions into personal conversation.
Most guys look at their success with women as a one-to-one ratio. She’s got those qualities. I’ve got these qualities. Am I good enough for her? It’s a simple one-to-one equation for them. But guys who are great with women know how to use leverage. Archimedes famously said, “Give me a lever long enough and
This is a fun sequence I like to do in conversation. It’s playful and I get to hold her hand. There’s always a point in the conversation where I transition into personal topics. “What do you do?” I ask her. “No–wait,” I say. “Don’t tell me. Let me guess.” I look her up and down.
Storytelling is one of the most powerful ways to connect with with women–and people in general. The reason it’s so powerful is because women are attracted to powerful men. And if you can affect her emotionally, she senses that you can affect anyone like this. Imagine you are a piano teacher. You’re in conversation with
She was stand-offish at first, acting like she was more interested in talking to her friend than you. But with enough teasing and playing, you get her to open up. You play some games. Ask her some stupid questions. You tell her to ask you some questions. It’s you and her. Back and forth. The
Once I’m in deep conversation with a woman, I generally don’t use pre-scripted material. I like to just go with the flow and really get to know her. But at some point, if I’m getting to know her well, I like to turn the conversation sexual. Turning the conversation sexual is one of the most
There’s a joke I like to tell: Q: How do you know when you see a group of pick up artists? A: There’s no women around them. It’s funny becauseÂ¡Ã„ well, it’s true. Most guys out there practicing their game are not very good at it. And that’s okay because we all have to start
Guest writer Erin Whitehead is a featured writer for OnlineDatingSites.net. You can follow her on Twitter at Twitter.com/girlwithatail. Ryan had a sarcastic sense of humor and a sweet smile. He seemed a little guarded on our first date, but I figured that would change with time. We were in line at the concession stand when