Update: Here is the recording from the conference call:

http://www.coryskyy.com/public/Free-Conference-Call.cfm

This post is from my good friend Cory Skyy, one of the best guys in the world when it comes to women.

I was talking to a guy the other day and he was asking me all these questions about becoming good with women, questions like…

So how do I escalate sexually with her once I meet her?

What do I say?

Is there something you can show me that I could do the next time I am in the situation?

I told him, ask and you will receive, but understand one thing:

If you want something like this you need to be asking the right questions and those are all the wrong questions to be asking.

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If you’re looking for a card to turn your woman off, here it is. Read the rest of this entry »

What methods do you use to meet women other than approaching?

Gaining the ability to walk up to a woman you don’t know and start a conversation is one of the most important things you can do for yourself.

There’s nothing like being able to walk up to a woman anytime, anywhere and talk to her.

Knowing when you see an amazingly cute woman, that you are empowered to speak with her rather than confined to your own isolated social space, like a prisoner locked in a cage.

Even aside from actually meeting and dating women, going through the process of learning how to do become socially confident will, in the end, make you feel better than anything else you could possibly do.

The thing is, every guy I know who’s able to walk up and talk to women also uses every means available to him to meet women. Read the rest of this entry »

Kassem G is a great interviewer.

He exhibits a lot of natural game during his interviews, particularly in his series Going Deep (NSFW language), where he interviews Porn Stars.

He subtly busts on her, introduces purposefully awkward silences and uses excellent cocky-funny like, “You’re coming on to me a little strong, wouldn’t you say.”

And while it doesn’t seem like a big feat with porn stars, he also demonstrates some excellent ways to get sexual while making it seem like it was her idea.

Here are some excerpts. The first I’ve actually used on dates and it works great.

Kassem G: What turns you on in a guy? Read the rest of this entry »

This website, Ratio Finder, claims to display bars/clubs with a higher ratio of women to men. (Found via Reddit)

It does this by aggregating 4square and other social location services.

Went to a few bars last week and it seemed legit for at least one of the bars.

And believe me, it’s tough finding a bar in NYC where there are more women than men.

You can choose different types of nightlife, parks, shops, etc.

Currently it looks like it only works for New York and San Francisco.

Top Ten of the Most Sexually Active Names

This uber-scientific study (sarcasm) claims to show common names: who’s gettin it the most and who’s gettin it the least. Go Chris!

You did everything right.

Your game was on point.

The date went perfect.

She wants you and she’s ready to go.

You get her back to your place, and all of a sudden…

Something is different with her.

When trying to make things happen, the last thing you want is to fumble things at the last minute because of a messy apartment.

What’s the big deal? you’re thinking.

A messy place can be bad news. Just like it’s difficult to smell your own body odor, it’s hard to see how disgusting it is when it’s your own place.

But if you’ve seen the show Hoarders, you know that there is potentially nothing more disgusting on earth.

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There are many good reasons to avoid being Facebook friends with women you want to date.

It almost always works against you.

I actively avoid it. If they try to be friends with me, I tell them I don’t use Facebook too much.

No doubt, when she’s really hot, you want to look at all her pictures.

But it’s worth resisting that temptation because there are so many downsides to tangling with Facebook.

Here’s why.

1. Facebook is a validation engine.

Facebook is built so that whenever you post pictures, your friends can “like” them and comment on them. That’s validation.

If you notice on Facebook, hot girls get a ton of validation. Read the rest of this entry »

As you start to get more confident, it starts to happen to you more often.

Women will compliment you.

Sometimes it happens out of the blue, and sometimes it’s after she’s gotten to know you.

Learning to accept compliments takes a bit of practice.

As an introverted guy, you may feel uncomfortable or embarrassed at first. You don’t like to be the center of attention. Try to get comfortable with it.

Knowing what to do can help.

Firstly, when it happens, even though you may feel like it, don’t compliment her back, at least not when she compliments you.

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(Thanks to John!)