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Jun 26

I do not hesitate to say Lance Mason from Pickup101 is amazing with women. But even more than that, Lance is one of the best teachers I know. I worked under his tutelage for years. The foundation for a lot of things I do now comes from Lance’s instruction. But Lance wasn’t always great with

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Jun 11

This weekend I met up with a guy who has been working on the steps in She’s Six Steps Away. He was practicing being direct with women. He was able to walk up to a woman and open conversation by being direct. “Hi. I saw you here and I had to come talk with you,”

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May 9

Guys waste a lot of time looking for two magic bullets: 1. Something that will consistently make them feel better 2. Something that will consistently make women feel better about them Searching for these magic bullets will lead to a lot of heartache and pain. Trying to feel better Feeling good is huge. It’s one

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Apr 27

One of my former clients talks about his approach anxiety: “I’d been reading about how to do it for a while. Finally one night I said to myself, all right, I’m going to go out tonight and I’m going to try to talk to girls. I went out to this bar in my neighborhood. It

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Mar 20

The Ballad of the Nice Guy (via Reddit)

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Mar 12

I’m walking along the subway platform on my daily outing. I stop next to a girl. As I turn to her and ask her a question, I realize how cute she is, much cuter than I initially thought. “Does this go to 59th Street?” I ask her. I’m just warming up, asking different women basic

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Feb 17

You want to be natural. We all do. Your interactions with women shouldn’t feel forced or fake. You want to be yourself. Confidence is being able to express yourself in almost any situation. But as you’re improving with women, the main problem: That ‘self’ gets locked up inside. And getting it out ain’t easy. One

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Nov 16

Thirty years ago, Dr. Stanley Milgram requested his graduate students perform an experiment. They were to go down into the subways of New York City and, over and over, ask people if they could have their seat. “Excuse me, may I have your seat?” Originally, the experiment was conducted to see just how many people

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Oct 25

A former mentoring student of mine sent me an e-mail this week. Hi Eric, I seduced a hot girl that I briefly worked with. After I hook up with a girl, I usually ask her for her views on sex and seduction.So I asked this girl how she likes to meet men. She said she

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