As winter ends and spring rolls around, hot girls flock to parks. It’s one of the nicest places to meet women.

I’m in Madison Square Park, New York City. There is a path with benches encircling a center lawn.

I’m walking by and I notice this amazing hottie lying in the middle of the lawn on her stomach reading.

She’s wearing immensely flattering tight, black yoga pants. Her ass looks amazing. Her face looks cute too. She’s fairly young, about 22.

Talking to a girl who’s standing, sitting, or walking is one thing, but it’s been a while since I’ve hooked a girl who is lying down in the middle of the lawn.

No shame in admitting I’m a bit intimidated.

But that’s okay, I simply follow the plan.

I first positioning myself near her. Read the rest of this entry »

“Let me see you do an approach,” my student says to me.

I start to get a little bit nervous. It’s easy to push guys to approach women.

“Go talk to her.” “Go say hi to that girl.”

But when a student asks you to demonstrate an approach, all of a sudden the pressure’s on you.

I’ve approached thousands of women.

And from the very first approach, to the very last, one thing always held constant:

Uncertainty.

No matter how many women you approach, the next is always a question mark.

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Oh my god. I DO NOT feel like approaching today. After a long weekend of helping coach AoA, I’m totally drained today. It’s monday x10. I’m sitting here at work and I’m useless. The weather sucks ass out.

I make my way out to the nearby Barnes and Noble to at least do the one set a day I promised myself. I see a cute girl sitting at a table. I can’t seem to do it though. Why? “I don’t have an opener” runs through my mind. “What would I say after opening” is vying for attention as well. Both of them are somewhat lame excuses, given the fact that my focus right now isn’t even to make sure I get in, my focus is to do an approach, whether I get blown out or not.

I’ve been doing so many openings in the park and on the street, that now, for some reason, the bookstore is giving me a hard time.

I see another cute girl heading up the escalator. I don’t open anyone and decide to head back to work.

Coming back from getting coffee a few hours later I veer through the park just to see what’s what. I walk past a cute sout-asian looking girl in a green dress. I circle round. Stop, sip my coffee. Okay, I’m going in. Read the rest of this entry »

I’m not in the mood today. Not in the mood to think about my routine stack, what I could say and not say, how to be more animated, how to generate attraction. Just not in the mood. I don’t feel like being funny. I don’t feel like trying.

It’s time for my set though and so I head out to the park. I feel a slight anxiety as I prowl girls going by. I’m getting better at this, better at spotting hot girls. When you pass enough girls that are close but just don’t cut it, all of a sudden you see one that cuts it and you better move.

I’m walking through the park and I see this super cute girl sitting at a table alone. The first thing that runs through my mind is “That girl is way too hot to approach.” I begin to silence the negative self-talk. But before my anxiety can spike my body is turning and walking toward her. Read the rest of this entry »

There was a slight spitting rain as me and my wing Glenn and his friend stood under a tree in Union Square park and jibber jabbered about pickup. I wasn’t quit in the mood to approach girls. Then this girl walks by who strikes my fancy.

Lately I’ve been opening girls that are either super hot because I think the more you get used to talking to hot girls the easier it gets. and I’ve also been trying to get used to opening girls that I just want to fcuk. While this may seem self-evident, I’m used to dialing down my attraction a couple of notches so I won’t be so nervous talking to her. But now I’m at a point in my game where I’m trying to dial that back up. I’m trying to crumble any connection there is between my raw physical attraction for a girl and my anxiety at approaching her.

So this girl walks by who was cute. Not scorching hot, but she was cute. Okay, so what caught my attention was the tight shirt with her nips poking through. But there was something cool about her style too.

After a few seconds I decide to open her and go running after her. Read the rest of this entry »

I met up with my wing Glenn and one of his friends in Union Square park. We go toward a coffee shop.

It’s 11000 degrees out but you can’t spit without hitting a cute girl. There’s so many people on the sidewalk, you have to wait a minute before getting into the coffee shop.

In less time than it takes to tell, I spot this cute girl walking past. I stop her as my friends walk into the coffee shop. I ask her for directions to the library and follow up with “Actually I just wanted to say hi to you. My name is Eric.”

She’s into it but she’s a little suspicious. We’re in Union Square after all, with all the attractions and pitfalls of city life clustered in one area. But I think, beyond that, I wasn’t even expecting to open this girl, I did it in a split second, without even thinking.

We end up going into the coffee shop together and I instant date her. She’s cute with short brown hair (my favorite) and a body to die for. Turns out she’s only been in NYC for three weeks. Read the rest of this entry »