Out of the archives comes this interview with one of the most enigmatic and and imposing figures in the seduction community, the legendary Brad P. Brad is one of the most aggressive guys out there when approaching women. To see the success he gets is mesmerizing. Yet he started with a lot of social anxiety,

In this fascinating interview with Pickup 101 coach and guru Dave Stern, we talk about what is at the root of learning to handle approach anxiety as well as the search for what is truly fulfilling in love and life. “A lot of guys get into this thinking that they’ll be happier when they can

In a hotel room in London, I talk with Trev Roberts, Pickup 101 coach and professional psychotherapist who works with guys to improve their confidence around women. “Guys come to me with direct questions about how they can interact with a cute woman at work, or the girl next door, or a friend of a

Women want a guy that’s funny. As Sean Newman says, on the back of every Playboy centerfold you never read when you were a kid, she writes that she’s looking for a guy who can make her laugh. Some people are just born funny and some aren’t, right? Is it possible to actually learn to

Jae Ellis has a unique and intriguing perspective on pickup. He’s coached women as well as men, giving him some fantastic insight into the way women think. He’s also got some great techniques to help guys get beyond approach anxiety. “Women are very very insecure, the same way men are, if not more so. On

This is the first in a series of podcasts. I interview Frank, an assistant coach for Pickup 101 and Craig, a guy who has worked with many different coaches including Pickup 101. We discuss how it was for them when they began approaching. We talk about how they handle approach anxiety, embarrassment and rejection and