One of the biggest mistakes guys make, over and over, is trying to logically convince women to date them. They spend an inordinate amount of time demonstrating that they are an appropriate match for her. For a woman to get involved with you, she must, at some point, take action, even if that means simply

Most men walk around insecure about their looks. They feel bad that they can’t attract certain women because they themselves aren’t physically attractive enough. They walk around with a feeling that attraction for women works the same way it does for men. Most men haven’t had enough experience initiating interactions with women they don’t know.

Where do you draw the line between confident and cocky? Between assertive and aggressive? How do you walk around like you think highly of yourself, but not like you think you’re better than everyone else? Guys are always trying to reach that line. But they usually fail. I’ll illustrate why with an example. In coaching

Me and my wing, Lee, have spent a long time going out together meeting women. We’ve developed some effective ways of working together that are completely original. Below I talk about some ways we work together when meeting women during the day and at bars at night. The Importance of Positioning When Being Indirect Positioning

I was with my 3-year-old nephew this weekend. We were playing with his toy cars. He would always start off this way: “Uncle Eric, which car do you want?” “I want the blue one,” I’d say. “No!!! I want the blue one. You take the green one!” Almost every time we played he would do

Women will mess with you. They’ll tease you and bust on you. And occasionally, they’ll be downright mean. It can get confusing because if a girl says something “mean” to you, that doesn’t mean she doesn’t like you. In fact, it could mean the exact opposite. After all, we are using the same exact tools:

This is an article from my friend Hurricane Lee. Some of you on this site have asked me to break down a good interaction. Some time ago, Eric and I were at a rooftop bar, a place with a particularly stunning view. Next to us are three women (later joined by one more). One of

In Weekly Challenge that just went out, (you can sign up here) we talk about push/pull. Here is a great video where a comedian/magician takes push/pull to another level. The part where he does push/pull starts at around 1:38: “What’s your name, princess?” “Stacey.”

The Ballad of the Nice Guy (via Reddit)

“Is there a zoo in central park?” I ask her. It’s 10 AM. We’re standing on the subway train. I’ve carefully positioned myself next to her so that it seems incidental that I’ve chosen to ask her. She responds, saying there is. “I have friends coming into town for the weekend and I’m thinking of