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Mar 12

I’m walking along the subway platform on my daily outing. I stop next to a girl. As I turn to her and ask her a question, I realize how cute she is, much cuter than I initially thought. “Does this go to 59th Street?” I ask her. I’m just warming up, asking different women basic

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Nov 16

Thirty years ago, Dr. Stanley Milgram requested his graduate students perform an experiment. They were to go down into the subways of New York City and, over and over, ask people if they could have their seat. “Excuse me, may I have your seat?” Originally, the experiment was conducted to see just how many people

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Oct 28

There are too many things wrong with me. My forehead is ridiculously high, my skin too white. My eyes are too small. They’ve been described as “squinty” by tactless friends. My jawline is anything but strong. I hide it with a beard. All the fashion now. I’m getting older, and still I’m typically not the

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Sep 23

No matter how good you get, you will always feel a bit of intimidation when talking with the women you like most. You may have dated a hundred women, but what happens with the next woman is always an unknown. What Tyson says about fear is spot on. It gets at the heart of dealing

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Sep 14

One of the focuses here at ApproachAnxiety.com is learning to understand and deal with all feelings. In our society, there is this idea that you should never feel bad. There are certain emotions and feelings which are unacceptable: Fear. Anxiety. Rejection. Hurt. Loss. Depression. Sadness. Weakness. As most of you know, I never feel any

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Aug 15

I’ve had a relatively good day. Got up early in the morning to work out. Felt refreshed and relaxed during the day. At 630, I meet up with my friend. We are going to hit the happy hour bars in New York City. We meet up in the Barnes and Noble cafe. We chat a

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Apr 16

I remember it like it was yesterday. It was a warm Friday evening, November 2005. I was sitting in a subway car on my way to get coaching to learn how to meet women. It was something I had never done before. I noticed my reflection in the window. I was wearing a new black

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Jan 8

Another excellent post by my good friend Robbie Kramer from Inner Confidence. It’s funny how we make things a lot more difficult than they have to be. By we I mean men, and what I’m talking about specifically is approaching women. Has something like this ever happened to you before: You see a woman you

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Nov 3

Today we have another excellent post by my good friend Robbie Kramer from Inner Confidence. Being a smart person is usually a good thing. However, when it comes to meeting and dating women, it can sometimes get in the way. There are many ways where over thinking about dating and meeting women hurts you. It’s

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Sep 28

This video (safe for work) is probably one of the scariest things I’ve ever seen. Fresh out of one of my nightmares. It shows what it’s like to climb to the top of a 1700 foot tower–with no safety lines. If you had the opportunity, would you climb the 1700 foot tower in the video?

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