Aug 25

I’ve posted before about Missed Connections. A few days ago, someone posted the ultimate Missed Connection on Craigslist. The link has since expired. Missed Connection – m4w. I saw you on the Manhattan-bound Brooklyn Q train. I was wearing a blue-striped t-shirt and a pair of maroon pants. You were wearing a vintage red skirt

1 - Listen to Her Actions, Not Her Words
Apr 19

All the time I see guys get themselves into bad positions with women. They turn into the guy who’s constantly asking a girl out for a date and she’s constantly saying no. They get into relationships where the girl is acting badly but he’s powerless to stop her bad behavior. Part of the problem here

2 - The Secret to Desire in Long-Term Relationships
Apr 1

Why does great sex so often fade for couples who claim to love each other as much as ever? Why does good intimacy not guarantee good sex, contrary to popular belief? Can we want what we already have? Why is the forbidden so erotic? What is it about transgression that makes desire so potent? For

3 - Emotions versus Logic the Biggest Mistake Guys Make with Women
Mar 24

One of the biggest mistakes guys make, over and over, is trying to logically convince women to date them. They spend an inordinate amount of time demonstrating that they are an appropriate match for her. For a woman to get involved with you, she must, at some point, take action, even if that means simply

4 - The Nice Guy – Extreme Edition
Mar 7

Some girl on Reddit posted this profile of a guy from OKCupid. Listened to 14 years worth of complaints about bad boyfriends, your bad day and everything else that’s wrong with you. Have helped hundreds, possibly thousands of people just by listening and trying to cheer them up. The first person I ever helped said

5 - Relationship Podcast with Glenn P and Eric Disco
Feb 27

Glenn and I sat down on Sunday and answered all of your fabulous questions about relationships. Get ready for some killer insight into the minds of some seasoned relationship experts who have been in the game for a while. Some of the stuff we cover What to do and say when a girl gets flakey

6 - How to Transition into Personal Conversation the Easy Way
Jan 25

This post is from Hurricane Lee. You can approach girls. You can ask for the time. You can ask for directions. You can ask a few related follow-up questions But you can’t transition into a personal conversation. Sounds familiar? You are not alone. Everyone starting out in game has the same problem. Everyone. Why? Because

7 - Always Be Closing
Jan 4

Lee is always forwarding me entries from Craigslist Missed Connections. It’s for people who have had interactions with strangers but didn’t get to exchange contact info. A lot of times you see posts where a girl was into a guy, but she just didn’t act in time. Or act right. And she missed her chance.

8 - Where Guys Go Wrong When They Meet a Girl They Really Like
Dec 25

At some point, you realize that what you’re doing just isn’t working. You’re too tame, too friendly, too passive, and too nice. Too many opportunities are slipping through your fingers because you aren’t making the move. So you learn new strategies that are edgier, bolder, and more sexual. You start to take risks with attractive