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Jun 21

“Your eyes are bigger than your stomach,” my mother would say to me as a child when I asked for a double serving of macaroni and cheese. “You’ll never be able to finish that.” She knew me better than I knew myself. I loved macaroni and cheese so I always asked for more but then

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Jun 3

Twelve years old. 5th grade. I picked a fight with the school bully. He accepted. “After school. I’m gonna kick your ass!” he said. When the 3 o’clock bell rang, the entire class walked to a backyard off of school property. I could feel my arms getting numb. I was paralyzed. Inhibited. I’d never felt

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May 21

This is one of my biggest secrets to getting past approach anxiety. To understand the beginning–how getting physical can help you start conversations with women–let’s look at the end game. In this video, Cory Skyy, a fantastic natural, talks about how to make a move on a girl when she’s at your place. In and

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Jul 26

I was recently inspired by Scott Adam’s book where he talks about how having a System is better than having goals. I’ve always heard that the key to success is having clearly defined goals. You should write it down on paper, think about it every day, etc. and that will make it come true. Supposedly

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Jul 14

This guy is a popular vlogger. I don’t follow him too much but I’ve seen him a couple times. He’s charismatic, entertaining and funny. He gets millions of views and seems like he has no trouble performing in front of people. That is, until you ask him to talk with women. A lot of guys

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Jun 30

Here’s a fun little exercise I’ve been doing with eye contact. I pretend I’ve been gifted with a magical power: Every day, I get to choose one woman who will come over and sleep with me later that night. I can only choose this woman from among the women I see that day. And once

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Nov 19

She’s Six Steps Away was awarded the Dating Skills Editor’s Choice award as best product to help you beat approach anxiety and get good at approaching women. ‘Right Click’ Here to Download the MP3 In this podcast, I talk about: Why Approach Anxiety is the No.1 reason men don’t get success with women (What 7

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Aug 25

I’ve posted before about Missed Connections. A few days ago, someone posted the ultimate Missed Connection on Craigslist. The link has since expired. Missed Connection – m4w. I saw you on the Manhattan-bound Brooklyn Q train. I was wearing a blue-striped t-shirt and a pair of maroon pants. You were wearing a vintage red skirt

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Apr 19

All the time I see guys get themselves into bad positions with women. They turn into the guy who’s constantly asking a girl out for a date and she’s constantly saying no. They get into relationships where the girl is acting badly but he’s powerless to stop her bad behavior. Part of the problem here

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Apr 1

Why does great sex so often fade for couples who claim to love each other as much as ever? Why does good intimacy not guarantee good sex, contrary to popular belief? Can we want what we already have? Why is the forbidden so erotic? What is it about transgression that makes desire so potent? For

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