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Sep 27

I just started working in a new area of town. After the stress of the new job has subsided, it’s time to start meeting women in my new area. What’s my first move? Go out and start having conversations? Nope. My first move is: reconnaissance. I check out the lay of the land. Where are

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Apr 14

“I gotta go,” she says. Rolling her eyes at me. At first when I spoke with her, she was friendly and welcoming. She was smiling and seemed happy. But then I said something that creeped her out. The interaction changed and she walked off. No big deal. You take risks. Some women will be into

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Mar 2

A client of mine, after running around for hours in the winter cold trying to meet women, came to a realization. “This is not for normal guys,” he told me. And he’s right. Going out and talking to attractive strangers in public is not for normal guys. It’s not for guys who quit easily. Guys

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May 20

Typically at some point, maybe a second, third or fourth date, I’ll invite her to come over to my place. She knows what will likely happen there: Sex. And if she’s coming over, that typically means she’s thinking about sleeping with you. The big question is: what do you do when she comes over? What

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Dec 24

I don’t have sex very much. That’s the honest truth. As a guy who teaches men how to meet women, it may not be what you expect to hear from me. Or what you want to hear. You might think that as a certification of my skill with women, I’d be posting about all my

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Nov 4

Jordan Peterson discusses how female choice led to the evolution of greatness in humankind: Peterson says: Chimpanzee females are non-discriminant maters. They will mate with any male. When they go into heat, which human females don’t, then any male is allowed access. The dominant males chase the subordinate males away. So the dominant males are

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Oct 5

You’re sitting in the park. You see a hot girl walk past. She’s amazing. You savor the view. Then the thought hits you: Wait. I could actually talk with her. Do you approach her or don’t you approach her? This question in itself is a problem. It sets up a binary: Either / Or. Either

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Sep 2

“Are you mad?” she asks me. “Dogs get mad. People get angry,” I tell her. “And no, I’m not angry.” It’s true. I rarely ever get angry at women, particularly in the first few months of a relationship. If she does something I don’t like, I don’t get angry. In fact, I sometimes like it.

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Jul 19

I recently asked one of the women I’m dating, a hot 27-year-old, whether she would ever do online dating. “I hope it never comes to that,” she responded. I have experimented with online dating for years. I had an extremely well-written profile, photos that I tested for maximum attractiveness, and a whole set of openers

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Jul 5

A simple fact about meeting women that everyone knows to be true but no one talks about: This is a numbers game. The more times you can get up to bat, the more likely you are to get a hit. If you approach ten women every day for a month, you are far more likely

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