She’s Going to Feel that Energy Right Next to Her
by 
Eric Disco
I’m sitting outside at a cafe in Sarasota, a coastal town in Florida.
Cory Skyy is sitting next to me puffing a cigarette.
We’re talking about women.
Cory Skyy is a natural.
He has never read anything about being better with women. He’s decent looking but not gorgeous.
And he’s considered by many to be one of the best guys in the world when it comes to women.
Cory can walk into a room and light a fire with any woman he chooses-without even saying a word.
He can tell you exactly what’s going on in any situation with a woman and exactly how it should be played.
He can read women’s emotions as if he’s telepathic.
Cory was with over a hundred women by the time he was 18. He’s in his mid twenties and more relaxed now.
He doesn’t approach women anymore. He gets women to approach him with eye contact alone.
I’ve seen him do it, and it’s incredible to watch.
He’s reached a success and subtlety in his game that most guys wouldn’t believe existed if they hadn’t seen it in person.
Of course, I have many questions for Cory.
“When you go to interact with a woman, what’s going through your mind?” I ask him.
“Nothing,” he says. “Nothing better be going through my mind. That stuff just gets in the way.”
He doesn’t want to think. He’s in the moment, taking action.
“What are you trying to do right after you see her?” I ask.
Cory explains:
“I position myself properly. If I see an attractive woman at the bar, I go up and just ‘happen’ to stand next to her.
I make my presence in this place next to the woman and project confidence through positioning and body language.
Now she’s got this guy who’s blowing out confidence standing right next to her.
She’s going to notice me. It’s body language. It’s the way I place my hands on the bar. It’s my self confidence that she’s going to pick up on.
She’s going to feel that energy right next to her.
She’s a little bit intimidated because I’m not talking to her. She’s just sitting there and I’m not saying anything. I’m just standing there next to her.
She’s waiting, thinking that I’m going to talk to her and she’s wondering, ‘Should I look at him? Should I not look at him?’
She’s the one questioning herself about the situation.
It almost brings up that fear and that intimidation factor that guys get when they see a woman and want to go talk to her.
In this instance, I don’t have that fear, because there’s no pressure on me.
I walked right up and I’m standing right next to this woman and projecting this confidence.
Then I start a conversation. I just look over and make a simple statement.
There’s no way she’s going to turn me down.
Even when I’m talking to her, I’m conscious of the way I’m positioning myself and how I’m standing.
I usually never face her, unless we’re really close and we’re about ready to kiss or we’re hugging.
I always want to show that I could walk away at any second. That’s what that shows.
I’m projecting a lot more confidence when I’m standing and she’s off to my side.”
What is Cory trying to do when he walks over to her?
He’s strategizing about how to physically put himself near her. He isn’t thinking, what am I going to say, how’s she going to react.
It’s all physical for him at that point.
What you say isn’t nearly as important as what you do.
And this is the biggest step that almost every guru out there fails to talk about.
Step 2 of the Six Step Method is all about positioning. At that step, we aren’t even speaking with women yet.
As a bonus for the book She’s Six Steps Away, I do a brand new interview with Cory.
We talk about how positioning sets you up for the next step: speaking with her.
If you haven’t gotten the book yet, you’ll want to get it now, while it’s still on sale.
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I’ll see you on the other side,
Eric Disco
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Hey Eric
I have came across your website and read alot of your articles. I appreciate the material that you post because it is relevant and also practical. For a long time I stopped reading PUA material because it did not seem genuine.
I have a question. Maybe this is more about perception than anything. I had a terrible relationship where me and my ex broke up and this was about 5 years ago. When we were together she made a lot comments about my job and my salary.
Moving forward today I got both a bachelors degree and a masters degree but I am stuck with a shitty low paying job and as a result my apartment is a cheap one in a not so great location. I guess it’s a combination of economic times and bad luck but I haven’t been able to find anything better.
When I talk to women I feel still very self conscious about my career and financial situation. I never used to feel this way but my ex really made it something she always was critical over.
I gave up dating for awhile because I was so self conscious about this. Do you have any advice for me ? Thanks for your time.
Hi Nick,
I had a client once come to me who was a construction worker. As we sat in the park during our first lesson, he told me something similar.
He was insecure that he didn’t have a college degree. He would talk with women and felt bad about that every time he tried. He said this gave him a lot of approach anxiety.
I explained to him this. Many of the best guys I know don’t college degrees. Probably half the gurus I interview. Many of the best naturals hold down jobs like bartending or some other job not considered to be very prestigious.
Yeah, it seems like it would help if you have a Ferrari instead of taking the bus, but you’ll find that most women don’t even hang onto things like that. It’s more about your passion in life and what you make of your life. You could have just as good a date sitting on a park bench watching the sun set as going to the most expensive restaurant in Manhattan.
After I said this to my client, he told me that this made him feel a lot better.
“Well,” I told him, “You’re still going to get approach anxiety.”
I don’t doubt your story or why you feel insecure. However, nothing I could tell you will take away that insecurity. I could tell you something that will make you feel temporarily better, but then you’ll see a guy who has a $2000 watch and a hot girl and start to feel insecure again.
The best you can get out of reading something is a temporary boost in feeling good about going out and doing something. The real change comes when you actually go out and do it and you realize that it’s not your financial situation that’s holding you back with women.
As you take action, you’ll still feel insecure. But as you do this over and over, you start to see that there are other things in your life that you need to change even more. As I say in my sales letter, I’ve coached heart surgeons, lawyers, millionaires, etc., and it wasn’t their jobs that gave them confidence with women.
Eric
“What you say isn’t nearly as important as what you do. And this is the biggest step that almost every guru out there fails to talk about.”
Absolutely. This is something I am a big believer in.
Cory has a fine understanding that sex is an animal thing, a nature thing, not a man-made thing. Language and words are man-made, so it can only hurt you to wrapped up in things to say. It’s the way you stand, the way you touch her, the way you look at her that has the power. The words just play a supporting role.
The question is not what do you say, but rather how should you be.
So Eric I’m on my 3rd day and I noticed that the first day I came out guns blazing doing all the way up to week 3 practice. Yesterday I decided to scale back and do the steps as you recommend, one week at a time. I found myself more nervous then the day before and just barely eeked out my doing my goal of stand bus. That took me way more than a half hr to an hr, going around the city to different spots. Is it fine to take as long as you need to reach your goal or should you give yourself a time cap?
That’s absolutely fine to take longer than you need. I recommend half an hour because to me that’s the bare minimum. If I have a busy day and can’t get out for very long, I at least do that. I at least take a walk around.
You can stay out as long as you like. But the biggest improvement comes from what you do CONSISTENTLY.
It’s like weight lifting. Yeah, you could try to lift your maximum weight on the first day and do it as many times as you want. But that’s not what is going to make you stronger. When you scale the weights down to 2/3rds of what you can do and do that repeatedly and consistently, you start to get stronger. You challenge yourself a little bit at a time and slowly ramp up the challenges.
Challenge yourself a lot sometimes, push it as far as you can, but if you go for broke every time you go out, you’ll end up feeling broke. You won’t be able to do the most important part, continue it every single day. Think manageable.
Eric
Yea I felt horrible after not doing as well the second day. So that analogy is fitting.
thanks
Thanks for the input Eric. I have another question. I actually had a really attractive female neighbor move in across from me. One day she left her keys in the door so I knocked and returned them to her. We had a brief chat then I intentionally cut it short saying I had to run.
What do you suggest is the best way to escalate from here ? My inclination is to wait until we run into each other at some point then chat her up from there.
I was considering knocking on her door to chat but I assume that comes off as AFC. I’m not going to get oneitis over her but she’s def. the hottest girl I’ve seen in sometime. I’m re-reading a lot of your articles again.
Thanks.
Hi Nick,
I would not knock on her door simply to chat. The main thing with women who you may see again, is that you want to be a bit indirect.
So some options for you might be to wait until you see her again and then invite her out for a drink or coffee. Or even invite her over to your place for tea.
You could try to find a “reason” to knock on her door. It’s a bit cliche to ask to borrow some sugar, but this is really a pretense that both of you can hide behind. You could say you need the landlord’s contact info, or some thing else like that.
Now, depending on where you live, you may actually not see this girl very often. There are some people in my building who I see once every few weeks. And there are others who I start talking to and find out they have lived in the building for years and I’ve never seen them. And then I never see them again.
So what I’m saying is that you need to be ready to escalate things when you do see her. So if you aren’t practicing escalating interactions with women in generally, you’ll want to focus on that rather than just this one smoking hot girl.
Eric
Yup nothing worse then screwing up badly and then having to run into her all the time you leave your house
Eric, I got your book. You’re like a Mr. Miyagi for guys without game.