“Here I am. I’ve chosen you.”
by 
Eric Disco
When it comes to being direct with women, there are few people in the world who do it better than Glenn P.
Glenn has developed an original style that’s more sexual and forward than anything I’ve heard of.
Glenn isn’t the best-looking guy in the world. He was made fun of in school and called `Gonzo’ for his large nose.
But he does exceptionally well with women.
He is considered to be one of the top guys in the world when it comes to women.
It would not be an overstatement to say that he has supermodels eating out of the palm of his hand.
I go out a lot with Glenn and I’ve seen it first hand.
He’ll walk away from a gorgeous woman with a phone number or e-mail.
And then later, we find out, this woman is some type of model in magazines or online.
One was recently on the cover of Bazaar magazine.
This happens with frightening regularity.
In a recent conversation, Glenn and I discussed how he feels about being direct with women.
“When I see an amazing woman, I get excited,” he said.
“Here’s this woman who I’ve never seen in my entire life. She’s ridiculously attractive and I have a chance to walk up to her and possibly fuck her. That excites me.”
He continues.
“There’s a difference between randomly complimenting a woman and actually initiating a conversation with a woman where you know you’re going to talk with her.
When I walk up and present myself, she knows that I’m there to talk to her based on what I say and how I act.
In general, if I’m going to start a conversation, I avoid normal compliments.
A normal compliment is something that she hears a lot.
Most guys are going to compliment a woman and say something like:
“I like your hair,” “Your dress is really pretty,” “I like your eyes,” “Wow, that coat is really nice,” or “You have good style.”
With the type of women I approach, it’s likely she’s heard things like that a few times that day.
Compliments are fine. But when I’m being direct, I try to steer as far away as possible from normal things like that.
I’ll walk up to a woman and say:
“I was just walking by, and I had to come tell you, you are fucking delicious.”
It’s a ballsy way to start an interaction. Very few guys will do something like that with a woman.
When I say that, she perceives me as confident, outgoing, sexual, comfortable with my sexuality, and experienced with women.
She already intuitively knows about the type of guy I am just because of what I said to her.
And it’s not just what I say. It’s my body language, my tonality, my eye contact, my positioning-all of it.
Sometimes I’ll say something a little different like, “You’re the cutest woman I’ve seen all day.”? That tends to get more of a shy `thank you.’
But saying, “You’re fucking delicious” tends to get the woman attracted and have her shut up because she’s just totally enthralled.
Once she’s attracted to me on that level, she’s scared or nervous of what she might say or do that might ruin my attraction for her.
She starts giggling and touching me, asking me a million questions, or just starts complimenting me right away.
What I say after that compliment is just as important.
After I’ve shown her that I’m attracted to her, I let her know she hasn’t won me over yet.
I give her one hell of a hard time and make her work for every last bit of my attention. I let her know I need to find out more about her to solidify my attraction.
I’m saying, “Here I am, I’ve chosen you.”
“Now you better show me really quick that you have something that I like about you besides your looks, or I’m walking.”
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In She’s Six Steps Away, I do a brand new interview with Glenn for the step on being direct with women.
He talks about every aspect of being direct, how he teaches beginners and what to expect when going direct.
We also talk about dealing with rejection and how he stays in prime condition to open a woman anywhere he might run into her.
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16 Comments »
Can’t wait for the interview.Glenn P is cool.I usually comment on his blog months ago.
But I’m just perplexed with all this direct-game bullshit every coach is advocating.
Indirect is supreme!
Big kudos to Glenn for direct game.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yg3yu9_K8sk&feature=related
dont know if I can post links to other places…but this makes alot of sense..
@Mango-So you think direct game is better?
As Eric wisely says-try both. Its YOUR personality and mixture of looks, style,enviroment and everything else that will determine whats best for you.
I personally like direct more in theory but in practice I am trying to improve my indirect game.
Direct game at night I think is the worst thing you can do -unless you are physically attractive in which case it might work. I hear in states direct works at night but in europe it doesnt…
Does it ever occur to you “Romeos” and pickup artists that there is
something wrong with the fact that these guys have to be schooled
just to play this game? Maybe the game and its rules are the problem.
Dave–most people are here because they’re not romeos or pickup artists. Most people are just looking to get past dating hangups.
There IS something–A LOT–wrong with PUA land. Which is why I want no part of it. But this site tends towards self-help rather than manufacturing sociopaths…which is why I post here–although a little knowledge is always dangerous if used the wrong way…
sociopaths are born, not made :D
Jely–I’m willing to bet it’s a combination of the two.
I have never seen normal people who turned into sociopaths after contact with the pickup community. I have seen many men come to the community with some pretty fucked up beliefs about women. Some of these men then become obsessed with the type of pickup I call “tricking chicks into bed”. And that’s where I see most of the regrettable behavior.
Sounds like gentlemen who are fucking for approval of their peers/family, rather than people who just want to fuck and have cool adventures with lots of people.
I’d bet the guys who trick chicks into bed, were often bullied when younger, or were the baby of the family. Not all of them, but I think we’d see a correlation.
Jely
@Lee–
I’m being a bit flip with the ‘sociopath’ term. But to be honest, I haven’t seen too many developmentally ‘normal’ people in this scene.
The community offers a way to teach social/sexual skills to people who haven’t learned them properly, and that’s potentially a good thing. But it tends to ignore underlying psychological foundations (because it doesn’t know how to deal with them), which can be a real problem. And for people who don’t have that stability, the promises of the world it offers (You can have all the 10s you want TONIGHT!) can lead to obsessive–and really disturbed–behavior. There’s lots of people in this community with social phobia, Aspergers, bipolar disorders, etc. They sign on because they believe there’s an easy way out, and can cause more damage if they’re not aware of themselves.
@MrAntiquity
There are men out there with really bad social skills. Most of these men have bad social skills because they have never been taught good ones. But some of these men have bad social skills because of a long list of psychological problems that the community is not equipped to address. What fraction of men are like this? It’s hard to tell, but Eric’s coaching experience provides a good sample. He has taught a cross section of men with varying degrees of social skills, experience, and anxiety. Some have indeed gone on to bed 10s and models. Most simply made solid improvements to their social lives. A small number made marginal improvements. And as far as I know, not one man who went through Eric’s entire coaching program left it with the same success rate as he had when he started. Eric’s ads are a little more subdued than the average community ad, but not by much. Nor does a six week program give him time to delve into some of the deep psychological issues that men often bring with them. He is not a shrink. He doesn’t have years in which to fundamentally reprogram men. Yet almost all of the results are positive, and some are very positive. There are creeps out there and there are men who are fundamentally very flawed. But these men still do a lot better with women after they go through a good coaching program like Eric’s. This is why I say that I haven’t seen any evidence that most men will fail to improve with women because they require a kind of fundamental reprogramming. In a short period of time – a period that is probably too short to completely change a man’s self image – most men can be taught to do a lot better with women.
ps, a sociopath is somebody who was never developed the ability to form a real attachment with another human – caused by not forming a ‘primary attachment’ within the ‘critical period’ (2 years).
I think psychopaths can be made, but a sociopath is born within and no later than 2 years old.
Jely
Wow! Sociopathes and psychopathes? Maybe there are a lot more
pressing problems out there for these kinds of guys than just asking
a woman out on a date. This sounds dangerous!
Am I the only one born who will not swear to a total stranger?
@JONES–
I’m with you.
Very much against it. But to each his own, I guess.