“I think you like me” (listen to the audio free!)
by 
Eric Disco
In my new program, the She’s Six Steps Away, I give guys the basics from the ground up to start conversations with women no matter how much anxiety they have.
Since it can sometimes be difficult for guys to understand what goes on in interactions from start to finish, I included a number of audio recordings of me in interactions with women.
It’s one thing to write about those sexy, tense moments (like below).
But what goes on in the entire interaction? How does it work from start to finish?
Today I’m giving away a free sample of one of those interactions. You can listen to it at the end of this post.
Here’s what happened.
I was out on my daily walk, Step 1 in the Six Step Method.
I’m near Grand Central Station and I see an amazingly cute girl standing outside smoking a cigarette.
She’s wearing dorky glasses with tight jeans. She has a really cute body.
With no hesitation, I walk over to her. I stop and stand next to her. I’m looking at my phone.
“Hey,” I say turning to her. “Do you know if there’s a place around here to get on the internet?” I ask.
“Internet. ” she thinks about it. “There’s a little cafe’ right when you walk in. They might have wifi.”
“Do you know if they print stuff up? I’m going to a gallery opening and I need to print up a list of things to bring.”
“I doubt. they would do it here.. You probably have to go to a library or something.”
“Yeah?” I ask. “Do you know where libraries are? You’ve got the glasses on. I figure maybe you know.”
She laughs. “I’m sorry, I’m not from here.”
“You’re just visiting?
She nods yes.
“Where are you visiting from?”
“Jersey.”
“Jersey! Wow! That was a long journey.” I say making fun of her. It’s only a half hour by train. “How did you survive the journey?”
“Well I’ve got the Nook,” she says referring to her e-reader.
“I’ve got the Kindle. Is that Nook good?”
“It’s alright. It’s a shitty battery.”
“My kindle is fine. Do you read 500 pages a day?”
She laughs. “Like 50. I try to keep at about 50.”
We talk a bit more about where I’m from and where she’s from.
I tell her I’m going to the pharmacy. She says she wants to go with me to pick up cigarettes, even though she previously stated she wouldn’t buy cigarettes in the city because they’re too expensive.
We walk together through the train station.
I move the conversation deeper.
“You seem like you have this artsy thing going on, like you do something else.”
“I wish,” she says. “Go to school. I got to school for social sciences. I eventually want to switch over to anthropology. I want to go to countries and villages where no one can get in touch with me because I don’t like people.”
“But I think you like me,” I say. “So I don’t know what that says about me. Maybe I’m weird.”
We talk some more about anthropology and behaviorism.
“Are you close with your family?” I ask her.
“Yes, extremely.”
“Because I recently read this study,” I say, “that women who are closer to their parents are more likely to orgasm during sex.” (Thanks to Lee for this one!)
“Really??” She says. “Actually, that makes sense. I’m not gonna lie to you. Because when you’re really close with your parents you don’t feel weird talking about sexual stuff. So when you go to have sex, you haven’t been raised to think of it as this huge big deal.”
“You’re less tense,” I say.
“It doesn’t feel like you’re doing something wrong,” she adds.
“But sometimes…” I say, “that can be good, feeling like you’re doing something wrong.”
“Oh, of course,” she agrees.
“And I feel like you do a lot of things wrong.” I say.
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Listen to the full interaction here.
Getting Sexual at Grand Central Station
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Great example of dragging chicks into the hot zone. This is what you can get away with if you’re willing to take chances! How long is this interaction, less than eight minutes!? That’s all it takes. Anyone who thinks it takes several dates to get chicks to talk to them like this is playing it way too safe.
Nice work Eric! But why did you ask for her email instead of taking her phone number?
Great question. I actually had a lot on my plate at the time in terms of women, so I didn’t feel like taking her number. I would say, for the most part, you’re usually better off going for a number rather than getting an e-mail.
Eric
Hey Eric,
If you did ask for her number would you just go ahead and ask for it? Or do something indirect, like inviting her to meet you at some bar on a given day/time? I’m trying to do the latter now but finding it a little contrived.
Thanks.
PS: The audio stuff is great. Much easier to understand how the conversation flows. Reminded me again that I don’t need to try to “make” the girl like me, but instead screen to see if I’m interested and she’s interested.
Amazing! This is exactly the wicked kind of conversation that I ASPIRE to!
I think direct approaches have their place, but this sort of thing can really lead to some great connections because it’s gradual and in life we meet people like this all the time-NOT ONLY GIRLS! Plus if she wont have the muscle memory responses of “sorry I have a boyfriend†or “sorry I don’t give out my number†etc as much.
For example if you go the DIY shop you might strike up a convo with a guy. He likes you cos you are genuine and can build rapport.
HOWEVER the KEY to me, and what I can see from Eric’s live demo is that I need to and want to learn to turn it into a sexual context ONCE I have built rapport-like Eric has done so skilfully here.
When the girl thinks about this after the interaction is over she will think “what a cool non-chat-up-artist-guyâ€Â. Even if she thinks you are a chat up artist, at least she will not doubt that you are yourself.
Whereas if you are doing a high energy direct approach i.e “I just had to come over and say hi blah blah†it will work but if you don’t build rapport and are not genuine it wont go well.
It’s like a hot promotion girl coming up to you and flirting with you. Even if you think she likes you when you get home you’ll question her motives and question your “sluttiness factorâ€Â. You mind will be like “ ermm probably just flake on me or was fun on the street to boost my ego but I’d not date him†and then you get a flake.
Anyway that’s my humble opinion from my experience.
Just wanted to say a Sincere Thank You to Eric for posting this and for all the inspiration you have given me and no doubt to countless others-whom you don’t even know. Credit and respect to you man!
p.s what would you have done if you had got a defensive or negative reaction once you said “I feel like you do a lot of wrong things” ?
what was the follow up? did you get an email from her?
I heard I think from Lee to give out your email but not take hers, that way if she does email back you know you have some buy-in. What was your thoughts in this respect?
Hi Mango,
Thanks for the feedback! If a woman reacts negatively to something like that, there are a few things you can do.
Firstly, you can do nothing. If she gets a little annoyed, that can be okay. Even if she expresses some annoyance, that can be okay. The fact that you aren’t apologetic says a lot about you.
Secondly, you can say something like, “I’m just playing.” Or simply call out the fact that she got annoyed. “Oh man, you didn’t like that.”
The fact is, getting a negative reaction from her is better than getting no reaction. Remember, in order to date her, she doesn’t need to think you’re nice. You don’t always need to conjure up positive feelings in her mind.
Me and this girl did e-mailed back and forth after this interaction but have yet to meet up.
There are a lot of good things about what Lee does in giving girls his e-mail. I have played around with this and still do it sometimes. If a girl is really into you, she will write you.
For me personally though, I like to contact her afterward. It’s just what works for me.
If you’re getting flakes, this is something worth playing around with. Different things work for different people.
In Lee’s game, he doesn’t like to chase at all. He’s more likely to drop a girl if he’s not getting enough back than say, Glenn who tends to pursue more aggressively.
Eric
@Mango
Just a quick comment. Leaving a card is not for everyone. I play a very high value game, so leaving a card works for me. If you play a different kind of game, you should consider taking a number. Eric experiments with different methods of exchanging contact info, but most of the time, he still gets a number.
–Lee
@Lee and @Eric,
Fantastic guys thanks for the clear up! Will incorporate into my game
Hey Disco,let me tell you,it’s 1 thing to have anxiety yourself(as the PUA doing the approach),but it’s a whole different ball game when the girl has anxiety and is nervous lol.That shit kills your game and usually stop me dead in my tracks.