You’re walking on the sidewalk, a little to the right as you normally do. It’s crowded with people to your left and right walking in both directions.

In front of you, walking in your direction toward you is a gorgeous woman. If both of you keep walking in the same direction, you’ll walk into each other.

What do you do? Do you move out of her way?

Most people do not consciously think about it. But if you live in a city like New York, it happens to you at least 50 times a day: Someone ends up walking directly toward you in your path.

It may not seem like such a big deal what happens next, but what you do is indicative of how you perceive your place in the world.

To change your direction in order to stay out of other people’s way communicates that you don’t have a right to be here, or in the very least, that you think other people have more of a right to walk on the sidewalk than you do.

When I walk on the sidewalk, I follow three rules. Read the rest of this entry »

She nuzzles my chest as she lies in my arms.

“Alright, I’m kicking your ass out,” I say to her with a smile. I give her a smack on the ass. “I gotta do some work.”

“Look at you, all motivated,” she says, sitting up in bed.

It’s Sunday morning. We woke twice in the middle of the night, once to fuck and then later when a torrential spring downpour sent occasional rain droplets in through the partially open window next to my bed.

“I keep getting splashed by raindrops,” she said before I closed the window.

As she puts her clothes on, we talk a little bit about our plans for the day. When she’s dressed, I walk her to the door.

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Storytelling is one of the most powerful ways to connect with with women–and people in general.

The reason it’s so powerful is because women are attracted to powerful men.

And if you can affect her emotionally, she senses that you can affect anyone like this.

Imagine you are a piano teacher. You’re in conversation with a woman and asks you, “What do you do?”

You could respond, “I’m a piano teacher.”

Or, you could respond with something more emotional, letting her in on what inspires you, what challenges you, and what makes you keep doing it.

Check out this amazing clip below by a guy named Benjamin Zander.

You would be well-off if you could communicate in your conversations even a fraction of what he does here.

This post is from Robbie Kramer of Inner Confidence.

Random question… do you think gamers are typically good with women?

If meeting women was like playing a video game, most guys would be awesome at it!

This is obviously not the case, but in this article I’m going to show you how can create your own “Game” to become awesome with women.

It may not look exactly like a video game and you have to play in real life but it can be just as fun if you are creative.

Just to give you a mind boggling statistic, a child spends 10,080 hours sitting in a classroom from grade five through 12. You know what else kids spend 10,000 hours doing between grades five and 12?

Gaming!

What would incentivise a teenager to spend more time gaming then socializing?

Positive Feedback. Read the rest of this entry »

I’ve just finished a coaching session.

As I step onto the subway platform, I pull out my book to read while I wait for the train.

A very cute blonde girl with plaid pants and a low-cut blouse slowly walks by as if she’s heading nowhere in particular.

So without hesitation, I tap her on the arm.

“Is the J train running?” I ask her, motioning to the J train sign.

“I don’t know,” she says with an accent. “I think so. The trains are not running well today.”

She’s friendly and smiling. She stops walking. She’s now standing next to me.

“I’m going to hire you as my personal tour guide,” I say to her. “I’m going to take you everywhere with me.”

She laughs. “Oh, I don’t know, I think you will get very lost.”

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