Kassem G is a great interviewer.

He exhibits a lot of natural game during his interviews, particularly in his series Going Deep (NSFW language), where he interviews Porn Stars.

He subtly busts on her, introduces purposefully awkward silences and uses excellent cocky-funny like, “You’re coming on to me a little strong, wouldn’t you say.”

And while it doesn’t seem like a big feat with porn stars, he also demonstrates some excellent ways to get sexual while making it seem like it was her idea.

Here are some excerpts. The first I’ve actually used on dates and it works great.

Kassem G: What turns you on in a guy? Read the rest of this entry »

Commenter jasfile writes:

What about consistency? If I would be honest, my opinion would be changing every other day at least. As I get more info on the subject, my point of view and my feelings about it change, sometimes even quite radically. But wouldn’t being honest make me look like a little bit of a doubtful, insecure person?

My current solution to it is to shake it off and say something about how only the wise are brave enough to change their minds and stuff. But still, wouldn’t a little consistency in opinion be more positive than being honest?

I was in a band a few years ago. There were four other people in the band.

Two of them were very outgoing–funny, clever guys who had no problem talking to strangers in bars, etc.

The other two members–a girl and a guy–were extremely introverted. All of them were decent musicians and had played and written music on their own for years. Read the rest of this entry »

I remember it like it was yesterday.

It was a warm Friday evening, November 2005.

I was sitting in a subway car on my way to get coaching to learn how to meet women.

It was something I had never done before.

I noticed my reflection in the window. I was wearing a new black leather jacket I’d bought just for the occasion, and a wooly brown sweater underneath.

As I noticed my reflection in the window, I wondered if I could really turn into a pickup artist.

I’d read The Game, by Neil Strauss, a few weeks earlier.

It lit me on fire.

I read it in a few days, staying up the entire night on the last day reading it. I couldn’t put it down.

Do people really do this? Read the rest of this entry »

This post is from Robbie Kramer of Inner Confidence.

One of my clients recently said to me, “I feel like you’ve given me permission to speak my mind.”

He went on to talk about how he had always felt disrespected and belittled by his older brother but now he has the courage to stand up to him and tell him how he feels.

I think that is freaking cool and it has EVERYTHING to do with confidently attracting women.

I used to be the classic “nice-guy” you hear about in the seduction community. I couldn’t handle confrontation so I made sure to keep my mouth shut and avoid pissing people off.

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Here are two different ways you could approach a woman directly:

One -

“I had to come tell you that you are unbelievably cute!”

Two –

“I had to come tell you that you are fucking delicious!”

It would seem that being positivewould yield better results.

But the reason the second often works better is counter-intuitive.

Here’s why.

I walk out the front door of the coffeeshop with my client. As we walk down the sidewalk, we discuss our game plan for the day.

Then, walking by, I notice an attractive woman and a guy talking. It looks like they just met.

But there appears to be something very off with the guy, as if he has some type of mental disability.

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There are a number of specific things I teach my clients in each session of my mentoring program.

However, it is really easy for guys to get overwhelmed.

You can’t tell a guy ten different things at once, or he’ll get lost in thought instead of focusing on action.

And he won’t be able to absorb it. It’s like trying to drink from a fire hose.

That’s why I am very careful to only give him one piece of improvement feedback for every interaction–the most important piece that will help him at the time.

I may tell them, “You need to speak louder.” And then explain why and how to implement that. Read the rest of this entry »