I would be lying if I said that most of the time, my primary intention in going out and meeting women is to find a wonderful relationship rather than the raw desire to have sex.

But as I talked about in my last post, once you get a taste of that sweet, sweet nectar called love, even sexual gratification starts to pale in comparison.

The day after a date with a girl you really like is completely different than the day after a date with a girl you merely want to fuck.

We all want to meet someone we really like. But sometimes, when you meet someone you like, you are left off-balance.

Even with all the experience in the world, things feel different with this girl than the rest, and we manage to fuck it up. Read the rest of this entry »

Love.

There’s no feeling like it in the world.

When you’re into a girl, everything in your life seems different. Colors seem more vivid.

Everything you do has a different purpose. Life seems more worth living.

It’s not surprising that Stanford researchers found that the feeling of being in love is extremely addictive.

The effects on the brain are almost indistinguishable from the most potent drugs like cocaine or heroin.

And if a girl is not giving you what you want, your life turns into a downward spiral, just like drug withdrawal.

You think about her a million times a day. You want her, at least emotionally, more than anything you can remember. Read the rest of this entry »

This post is from Josef via Reddit.

I’m a gay man, and I think that’s why I’ve been able to notice these so well. I made this post so hopefully more guys can see it.

How a guy can know when a girl is interested:

• If you’re talking to a cashier and she tells you for any reason when she gets off work, she wants you to come back.

• If a girl gives you her number, on some level she is interested. Meaning she gives it to you without you prompting her first, though often if she gives it to you after you ask her it still means she’s interested.

• If a girl repeatedly mentions how she wishes she had a nice guy to date, she is interested. Read the rest of this entry »

This article is from Mark Manson at PracticalPickup.com

I parked my car in front of the gym and immediately popped my iPod headphones into my ears. As I get out and walk across the parking lot I catch a glimpse of a slender figure walking toward the door from another angle. I look over. She’s hot.

We catch eyes and hold. She looks away, but only after holding my gaze for a half-second longer than most people would. An instant of sexual tension pops up between us.

She walks into the gym about ten paces ahead of me. I check out her ass. It says “PINK.” It’s those fuzzy kind of tight sweat suits girls wear some times. My mind immediately judges this. Read the rest of this entry »

Of all the things I’ve done wrong in the past with women, the thing I regret the most is not making the move.

It’s one thing to make a move stupidly, or get rejected, or even fuck it up royally, but not having made the move at all just kills me.

About ten years ago, when I first moved to New York, a friend of mine invited me out. She had a friend visiting from France who turned out to be a really cute girl.

This girl seemed to really like me. At the end of the night, this girl said she had no place to stay and wanted to stay at my place. I, of course, obliged.

What happened? Read the rest of this entry »